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The 5 Stages of a Baby-Canine Friendship

By Juliana Weiss-Roessler

You spent the last nine months preparing your dog for this new family member, and the initial meeting went well. But that’s just the beginning!

Your dog’s relationship with your baby will change over time. At each stage of your baby’s development, you’ll encounter new joys and new challenges. The key is to be alert to changes and to monitor interactions between them so you can step in and correct problem behavior — from either your dog or your baby!

Here are a few of the dynamics you may encounter as your baby grows — and how to get through them as a pack.

Stage 1: Newborn and the Baby Alarm

A newborn brings a whole range of new smells and sounds into your home, and perhaps the most worrying is crying. Remember, your dog picks up on energy, and the energy that your baby is giving off while crying is anything but calm and assertive. Your dog may become distressed, too, whimpering, whining, and barking.

This may be endearing at times (“Aww, look — Spot is worried about you, too!”), but it can also be a problem. A barking dog can get in the way when you’re trying to get a baby to sleep, and often those crying jags happen in the middle of the night, when your neighbors may not appreciate the commotion.

You can help accustom your canine (and human!) family members to the sounds of crying before the new arrival by playing the sound on your computer at loud volumes for extended periods of time. If possible, keep your dog some place where the noises of the baby can’t reach him at night. (That way, at least someone is the house is getting a good night’s sleep!)

One of the most important things you can do during this stage is maintain a regular routine of walks with the whole pack — mom and baby out the door first and at the front of the pack. This not only helps send a message about your baby’s role as a pack leader, but also helps drain your dog’s energy, leading to better behavior overall.

With all the changes of having a new baby, many new parents put dog walks on the back burner, resorting to just letting the dog out in the backyard or a quick stop to the corner. Of course, you may have days where this is simply a necessity, but make that the exception to the rule. Consider dog walks a priority. It’s not just good for your dog; it’s good for you, too.

Stage 2: The Sitter and the Food Thief

At this stage, your baby is sitting without support, so you’ve likely begun feeding purees and may even be ready to start solid foods. Pretty soon your dog will discover just how rewarding having this new family member around can be. All babies enjoy throwing their food to see what happens, but your baby gets an added benefit: The entertainment of watching your dog beg, jump, and dive for tasty morsels. In fact, your baby may enjoy offering food directly to your dog, making it even harder to discourage this kind of thievery.

So what can you do to keep baby’s mealtime under control?

Know your dog. Is he the type to sneak a treat from the kitchen table? Does she get possessive over particularly delectable snacks? Recognizing the issues you may confront before the first feeding can help prepare you for that first meal.

Claim the high chair. Set clear rules, boundaries, and limitations from day one. Bring it out before you’re even considering feeding your baby anything besides breast milk and formula, and let your dog know who owns it. Then take things up a notch by adding some food to the tray.

Get help. It can be hard to keep track of an unruly dog and an unruly baby at the same time. Even if you don’t expect to have any issues with your dog, plan for the first meal to be at a time when there’s someone else at home, so one of you can focus on correcting the dog and one of you can focus on the baby’s needs.

Beware of dangerous human foods. Most of the food that you will be feeding your baby at this stage will be mild on the stomach. In fact, some veterinarians even recommend feeding baby food to a dog with a troubled tummy. But that doesn’t mean that all food you feed to your baby is safe for your dog. For example, avocado is a great treat for a baby — but potentially dangerous for your pup. And any sudden shift in diet can wreak havoc on a dog’s tummy. Keep a list of foods to beware of near the fridge as a reminder, and talk to your veterinarian about any concerns you have.

Put the dog away. If you have any fears about your baby being hurt by an overexcited or possessive pup, make dinner a time when the dog goes away for a while. But be aware that this issue won’t go away over time. Eventually, your baby will grow into a toddler who will want to walk and snack. Consider hiring a professional to work through the issue.

Things only get more exciting as the baby gets moving! Check back to learn about the Crawler and the Test Subject, the Walker and the Bulldozer, and the Toddler and the Playmate in Part 2.

By Juliana Weiss-Roessler

Have you added a baby to your pack recently? Then you know that the challenges of the baby-canine relationship extend well beyond that initial meeting.

In the early stages of development, you’ll encounter the Newborn and the Baby Alarm, and then the Sitter and the Food Thief, as discussed in part 1 — but things only get more interesting as your baby continues to develop.

Here are just a few more dynamics you may encounter as a new parent.

Stage 3: The Crawler and the Test Subject

Uh-oh! That dog better watch out — baby’s on the move! And he may head directly to his canine pack member to get some hands-on time.

This is a great opportunity for the baby and the dog to get better acquainted. After all, they have a lot in common right now as they both move around adeptly on all fours. But it’s also crucial to monitor all interactions. It’s not too early to direct your baby about the right way to pet a dog. Encourage gentle behaviors, and discourage pulling and poking. Avoid the top of the head in favor of under the chin.

Your baby doesn’t understand explanations like, “That hurts the doggy.” Keep it simple with a firm “No” for behavior you want to discourage, and then demonstrate the correct behavior. Remember, babies are sponges — be aware of how you interact with your dog because you’re teaching your baby how to treat your dog, whether or not you intend to.

It’s also important to let your dog know what behaviors you’d like to see around the baby. Your dog may be excited to get some up-close time with the baby, but be careful not to allow too much excitement around the baby. Encourage relaxed, calm energy, or you’ll run into problems during the next stage.

Stage 4: The Walker and the Bulldozer

Baby’s first steps often drastically shift his dynamic with your dog. A crawler may have no problem with a happy dog approaching for a kiss, but a new walker can be easily knocked over by the same behavior. If you’ve encouraged calm-submissive behavior around your baby during early stages, hopefully your dog’s on the right path. But again, monitoring interactions is the key. Expect your baby to be bowled over now and then. It’s part of the growing process for dog and baby.

Does the baby get really upset when the dog is behaving badly? Sometimes it’s not the dog’s behavior that’s upsetting the baby, it’s your behavior! Your angry or anxious energy can negatively impact both the dog and the baby. For example, when your baby is knocked over by an excited pup, don’t get angry; instead give a calm-assertive correction. Both dog and baby will react better, and you may be surprised to find your baby mirroring your behavior in the future.

Stage 5: The Toddler and the Playmate

Now that your little one’s footing is getting a little steadier, you may feel ready to introduce playtime together during this stage. If your dog doesn’t have issues with possessiveness over toys, a great activity at this stage is fetch.

Find a soft ball that the baby can throw for your dog. (It’s important that the ball is soft because it may end up landing directly on your dog’s head… repeatedly!) Ask your dog to sit calmly. Then give the ball to your toddler and ask him to throw. It’s likely that the ball won’t go far, but you may find that your dog has met his match. Don’t be surprised if you find that both baby and dog look at you with those sweet eyes begging for, “Just one more throw, Mom!”

Thanks for checking this out…
WOOF !!!
MightyDog Shasta

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